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Want to build positive relationships? Then make sure not to commit the following 10 things that disrupt relationships: 你想建立积极的人际关系吗？那么确保不要做一下十件会毁灭关系的事情。 1. Giving hurtful comments. Are you hurting others by your lack of tact? You might think that you're being helpful, but your intentions might have hurt the other party instead. Put yourself in others'shoes first. If it's not a comment you appreciate hearing yourself, then perhaps it's not something others will appreciate either. 1. 给伤害性的评论。你曾经因为缺乏机智而伤害过他人吗？你可能觉得你是在帮别人，但是你可能伤害别人。首先，替别人想想。如果你不愿意听到那个评论，那么对于别人而言，可能也不愿意。 2. Giving solutions when the person is really looking for a listening ear. Probably an understatement: A lot of times what people want is a listening ear. Deep down, people have solutions to the problems they are facing – they are just looking for someone to share their frustrations with because they have had a long and hard day. I had a friend who would always butt in with suggestions whenever I shared my frustrations. Our conversations became stifling – in the end I stopped talking about them altogether because I wasn't getting the refuge I wanted. Be more conscious of what the other party is looking for, and adjust accordingly to fit that. | 
