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When Thea and her husband moved to Los Angeles a few years ago, she had no friends close by and was alone frequently while her husband worked long hours. Though Thea, who asked that her full name not be used, says her husband was the "best friend someone could have," the spark, and sex, were gone. 几年前西娅和丈夫搬迁到洛杉矶时，她周围没有朋友，在丈夫整天忙于工作时，她经常感觉非常孤单。按照西娅的要求，我们不用她全名。尽管西娅说丈夫曾经是她的知己，但现在两人之间已没有了火花，也没有性生活。 Seeking company and a little romance, Thea became a member of AshleyMadison.com, a web site that connects married people wanting to have an affair. 渴求陪伴也想要寻找些许的浪漫，于是西娅注册成为AshleyMadison.com网站的会员，该网站中有很多已婚却有出轨意图的人。 After a few dates with a man she connected with, she began an ongoing affair. "He was giving me all of the stuff my husband wasn't -- attention and affection," she says. 在和一个男人约会几次之后，她真的有了外遇。“他能给我一切我丈夫不能给的东西——那就是关注和爱慕”她说。 There are many reasons for infidelity, such as revenge, boredom, the thrill of sexual novelty, sexual addiction. But experts say that a large majority of the time, motivations differ by gender, with men searching for more sex or attention, and women looking to fill an emotional void. | 
