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Taking an interest in her life, job or anything else that she likes to talk about is a must for first date conversations. You can do that by asking questions like, “How did your job/hobby/interest start?” 在初次约会的时候，聊聊她的生活、工作之类她乐意聊的话题是必须的。你可以用“你的工作、爱好、兴趣是怎么开始的呀？”作为开头。 Contrary to popular opinion, women don’t only want to talk about themselves; they also want to see what’s going on with you. When it comes to dreams, expressing yours will make her gain some interesting insight into you, and she’ll love that you can open up to her. 与大家通常所想的不同，女人在约会的时候不仅仅是想聊聊自己的问题；她们也会想要了解你。不要吝啬于谈谈你的梦想，这会让她对你有更深一层的了解，她会很高兴看到你对她敞开心扉的。 Throwing in a word about your friend and something interesting he said or did will show your date that you have some awesome mates. Just make sure you don’t fall into the trap of going on and on about your friends to the point where you are taking focus away from your date. 跟她聊聊你朋友的事情，或者你朋友说的或者做的好玩的事会让你的约会对象觉得你朋友很多。但是千万不要总跟她聊你朋友的事，这会让她觉得你的注意力都没放在她的身上。 | 
