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Do you regret your marriage, and why? 你的婚姻让你后悔吗？为什么？ 获得38.8k好评的回答@Jennifer Lynn: Yes, my first marriage was a disaster. It was actually an arranged marriage and I had no clues as to what kind of a person I’m going to spend the rest of my life with. When his lies, selfishness, lack of love and greediness surfaced, it had become difficult for me to stay under one roof. We separated soon after. 后悔。我的第一次婚姻就是一场灾难，其实是父母安排的，我也不清楚自己的余生要和什么样的人一起度过。当他的谎言、自私、缺乏爱和贪婪显露无疑的时候，我就很难和他共处一室了。我们后来很快就离婚了。 Later on I realized my mistake and I would like to share it with you. 后来我意识到了自己的错误，我愿意分享给你。 Oftentimes people get into a relationship before taking the time to figure out who they are and what they need. They may spend more time researching their perfect car, which they will have for a short time, than they will researching their needs, wants and goals for their perfect relationship, which they expect to have for a lifetime. Therefore, step 1 is about self-discovery. If you are in a relationship just because it’s expected of you, it might backfire on you soon. 人们经常还没弄清楚自己是谁、自己想要什么就开始恋爱。他们可能会花更多时间研究最适合他们的车，而车只会用很短一段时间，却不会花那么多时间研究自己完美恋爱中的需求、渴望和目标，而恋爱却是他们想要持续一辈子的。因此，第一步就是自我发现。如果你只是遵从别人的期待谈恋爱的话，你很快就会自食其果。 | 
