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回家过年，单身的同学们是不是又被催婚了呢？说到婚姻，无知必会带来伤害。情感专家称，出于害羞、希望保留浪漫神秘感等心理，许多情侣婚前往往不会互相询问某些有助于建立稳固婚姻基础但却难以回答的问题。但有些问题不解决却会产生问题，所以无论是有对象计划步入婚姻殿堂、还是仍在相亲，可能碰到意中人的朋友们，都建议和未来的另一半探讨一下这婚前必问的12个问题，以增进了解。 1. Did your family throw plates, calmly discuss issues or silently shut down when disagreements arose? 出现分歧时，你的家人会怎么做呢？是扔盘子，还是平静地探讨问题，亦或对问题闭口不谈？ A relationship's success is based on how differences are dealt with, said Peter Pearson, a founder of the Couples Institute. As we are all shaped by our family's dynamic, he said, this question will give you insight into whether your partner will come to mimic the conflict resolution patterns of his or her parents or avoid them. "情侣研究所"创始人之一皮特·皮尔森称，一段关系的成败取决于人们如何处理分歧。由于我们所有人都会受到自己家庭的影响，这个问题将让你能够了解另一半是会效仿还是规避ta父母化解冲突的方式。 2. Will we have children, and if we do, will you change diapers? | 
