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Bad habits that affect your relationship 这些坏习惯会破坏你们的感情 Trying to improve your partner 试图提升另一半 First, let’s start with one of the worst bad habits for your relationship. “The idea that you can improve your partner puts you into a 'superior' role which skews the power balance in the relationship,” says Geoff Lamb, psychotherapist. “This isn't to say that it's not good for a relationship for partners to give each other feedback or say what you want from each other.” 首先，我们先聊聊谈恋爱最糟糕的习惯之一。“提升另一半的想法会让你觉得自己很有‘优越感’，从而破坏恋情的力量平衡，”心理治疗师杰夫·兰姆（Geoff Lamb）说道。“但这并不表示，一方不能给另一半意见；也不能表示一方不可以向另一方表达希望从对方身上获得什么。” Bickering via text messages 发短信吵架 Having serious conversations via text message could lead to disconnect between couples, according to research from Brigham Young University. The study found that using text messages to apologize or work out problems had a negative impact on women’s relationship satisfaction. Don’t fall prey to these bad habits. The study also found that sending loving messages could enhance your relationship. 杨百翰大学的研究表明：发短信说一些重大问题可能导致情侣双方脱轨。研究发现：短信道歉或通过短信解决问题会让女性对恋情满意度打负分。不要成为这些坏习惯的牺牲品。研究还发现：发送浪漫的短信会让你们的感情更好。 | 
