What do people regret the most once they go past 50 in life? 人过50岁后最后悔什么? 获得106.2k好评的回答@James Altucher: In six months I’ll be 50 but I already know what I’ll regret. 再过六个月我就50岁了,但我已经知道自己将会后悔什么了。 This is the cliche answer. “If anything had been different I wouldn’t be who I am today.” Like what I am today is so great I’d never want to change it. But... I wish I could’ve done some things differently in the past and still be the person I am today. Life is pretty hard and complex. And our brains aren’t smart enough to figure it all out. 有一个回答很俗:“如果可以重来,我不会是今天的样子。”就像我现在过得很好其实并不想改变。但…我希望过去可以做出不同的选择但仍然是今天的我。生活很艰难也很复杂,我们的大脑也没有聪明到能搞清楚一切。 KIDS. I wish I had spent more time with my kids. Sure, I spend quality time with them now. But I worked really hard and, I admit, I probably avoided them when they were really young and difficult to wake up and get ready for school when they were younger. 孩子。我希望过去能多陪陪孩子。当然我现在陪伴他们的时间都是优质时间,但我过去真的工作很辛苦,而且我承认可能在他们小时候还有很难叫他们起床准备上学的更小年纪时我是有意避开他们。 |