怎样知道被人利用了？

How can I tell if someone is just using me?

我如何知道有人在利用我？

获得74.1k好评的回答@Derrick Chavez：

Definition: Give a false impression of one desire in hopes of receiving another.

定义：为了达到某种目的假装有另外一个目的。

Here is a scenario:

看下面这个情节：

The girl

女孩

1.She wants a relationship.

1.想恋爱。

2.She wants deep connection.

2.想深入交往

3.She cares for her potential parnter in many ways.

3.在很多方面都在乎未来的男朋友。

On the other hand,

相反，

The guy

男孩

1.The guy pretends to want a relationship.

1.这个男孩假装想谈恋爱。

2.He pretends to care deeply for the girl.

2.他假装很在乎那个女孩。

3.He truly and only desires the sexual activity. He convinces the girl he wants more.

3.他真的只想发生关系，但说服女孩相信他不只是想发生关系。

4.He deceives, lies, and cheats.

4.他蒙蔽你、对你说谎、欺骗你。

To use someone means to deceive them, to lie, and to cheat in hopes of receiving something in return.

利用别人就意味着蒙蔽、说谎、欺骗，只是为了达到某种目的。