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I would be lying if I say I don't need companionship. Feels nice to have someone to talk to, to cuddle with, to spend the rest of your life with... 如果我说不需要别人陪那是假的。有人说说话、拥抱一下，有人共度余生的感觉也不错。 Reality - With companionship comes responsibilities, commitment, adjustments, compromises, new relatives, obligations, expectations. These things have started to overwhelm me. 现实是——陪伴也伴随着责任、承诺、磨合、妥协、新的亲戚、义务、期待。这些东西已经开始压垮我了。 When I think about the freedom I have being single and see the kind of life a committed / married individual is living, I feel content. 当我想到单身时的自由，再看看恋爱中人或已婚人士所过的那种生活时，我感觉很满足。 It takes time to become emotionally strong and is a never ending process. I used to fear loneliness until I started enjoying my own company. I've become so comfortable with myself that at times (when my emotional strength is at its peak) I just can't see myself in a relationship. 情感上变坚强需要时间，而且永无止境。我过去害怕孤单，直到后来我开始享受自己的陪伴。我自己生活得如此惬意以至于有时候（我自己精神上最坚强的时候）我都无法想象恋爱了会是什么样。 P.S. - It's not an easy journey to reach this stage. | 
