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1. You expect your partner to listen to you vent but you don't offer the same in return. 1. 你希望另一半听你发牢骚，但却不能相同以报。 One of the best reasons to be in an intimate relationship is that we have someone to tell our troubles to, who will take our side when the world feels harsh. That feeling of being understood and accepted is what intimacy is about. If you become immediately bored, or act like your partner is a drag when he or she starts to tell you about their bad day, it's like slamming an emotional door in their face. Even if your partner doesn't protest, it's still a recipe for loneliness in a relationship. 为什么要谈一段亲密恋情？原因之一就是：当我们遇到麻烦时会有人倾听，当世界"虐"我百遍时，会有人站在我身边。如果当另一半开始谈起他/她这一天的不顺而你却立即表现出兴致缺缺，或觉得他/她很扫兴时，这无异于你当着他/她的面'砰'地一声关上感情之门。即使你的另一半并未因此抗议，这依然会导致你们相恋却孤寂。 | 
