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1. They’re good listeners 1.他们是好的听众 Charmers immerse and focus themselves in what the other person is saying. They aren’t busy thinking of a rebuttal or a response. They don’t interrupt people while they’re speaking. Instead, they make people feel like they’ve been heard. 有魅力的人会关注并沉浸在对方所说的话中，他们不会忙着考虑怎样反驳或者做出回应，他们不会在对方说话时打断。相反他们会使对方感觉被倾听。 2. They speak clearly 2.他们表达清楚 They take their time to think about each sentence, avoiding any unnecessary fillers that will make them unclear. These good communicators speak confidently, precisely, and deliberately. 他们会花些时间考虑每句话，避免不必要的言语使自己表达不清。这些善于沟通的人说话很自信、严谨并且是经过深思熟虑的。 3. They ask for advice 3.他们寻求建议 When someone asks for your advice, it shows that they value your opinion. Asking someone to share their area of expertise helps boost their confidence. And it will likely make them think of you more favorably and memorably. 有人向你寻求建议时说明他们看重你的想法。让别人分享专业的意见能帮他们建立自信，也有可能使他们更喜欢你更能记住你。 4. They’re authentic and genuine | 
