Consider what you truly want 好好想想:你究竟想要什么 Before you even think about logging on, you need to know what you want. "One of the things that people don't think about is that they should be sure what they're looking for," says Caroline Lovett, Qualified Psychosexual Therapist and member of COSRT. "Is what they're looking for a sexual hookup or is what they're looking for a relationship? Those are quite different things." 上线前,搞清楚自己想要什么。"人们不会考虑这样一件事:明确自己的对象目标,"持证性心理治疗师、COSRT会员卡罗琳·洛维特说道。"他们究竟是只想约炮还是想认真谈一段感情?这是两码事。" |