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1.) Ask them why they feel this way 1.) 询问她们为什么会有这种感受 They might not have reasons for hating him that make any sense, and you might really have a tough time during this conversation. That's okay. It's not going to be that enjoyable for you (or for your friends). What matters is that you're listening and that you're not just telling your friends that because they say that they hate your boyfriend, you're never going to talk to them again. 闺蜜讨厌男朋友的理由或许并无意义，这样的对话可能会让你十分煎熬。不过没关系。于你或朋友而言，这样的对话本身就不愉快。重要的是你在倾听朋友的感受，而不是告诉她：就是因为她讨厌你的男朋友，你就要和她断交。 Chances are, you don't want to ruin your friendships over this. That would really be a shame. Remember that friends have different personalities and likes and dislikes. That's what makes friendship so interesting. We don't have to agree all of the time. 你可能并不想让这件事破坏你们的友谊。如果真的发生这种情况，那就太可惜了。你要记住，朋友的性格和喜恶不尽相同。所以，友谊才会如此有趣啊！不一定非得事事达成一致。 | 
