Try to understand your partner's needs 试着了解另一半的需求 If your lover tells you they need more space, try to talk about it and find out the reason for this request. It is not always because of you, so do not get aggressive. They might have a stressful period at work, or feel like they need to hang out with their friends more, or just want to spend some time doing things they like. 如果爱人告诉你他/她需要更多的空间,那就试着和他/她沟通此事,了解他/她想要更多空间的原因。并不总是因为你才导致他们想要更多的空间,所以不要太咄咄逼人了。可能是因为他们的工作压力很大,也可能是因为他们觉得需要花更多的时间和朋友呆在一起,也可能只是因为他们想有时间做自己喜欢的事。 |