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They've been hurt before, and so they've forgotten how to trust others. 他们之前受过伤，所以忘记了如何信任别人。 "I'm really not good in relationships. It wasn't always that way. It's just that the first two women I was with cheated on me with a friend (different friend), both of whom told me about it later. I guess I developed a mindset that if I couldn't trust women and they were likely to do it again in the future, I might as well not deprive myself." "我真的很不擅长谈恋爱。但世事无绝对。只是我的初恋和第二个对象都出轨了我的朋友（不同的朋友），她们都在出轨之后告诉了我这件事。我想，也许我因此有了这样的心态：如果我无法信任她，而她也有日后出轨的可能，那不如我自己先出轨好了。" | 
