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What should I do when I am emotionally attached to a narcissist? 爱上一个自恋的人该怎么办？ 获得27.6k好评的回答@ Elinor Greenberg： Imagine that you brought home an adorable new dog. In the beginning he seems perfect—handsome, affectionate, and well-behaved. Then one day you go to pick up his food bowl, and he bites you. You remember hearing that dogs can be territorial about their food, so you decide to chalk up that bite to your ignorance. From now on you will be more careful about suddenly invading his space. Cut to six months later. Your dog’s territory keeps expanding and there are fewer and fewer zones left for you. 想象你带回家一只新的可爱的小狗，最初他很完美——漂亮、跟你很亲热、表现很好。后来有一天你拿他装食物的碗时他咬了你。你记得听说过狗会护食，所以你决定要把他咬你的这一口归咎于自己的疏忽。从今以后你更加小心不能突然占了他的地盘。六个月以后，狗的地盘一再扩大，留给你的空间越来越小。 Now, would you keep this dog? If not, how would you handle your emotional attachment? Here are some suggestions. When you start missing your Narcissist: 现在你还留着这条狗吗？如果不留，怎样才能控制自己的喜欢呢？以下是几条建议，当你开始想念一个自恋的人的时候，你可以： Remember all the pain he/she inflicted on you. | 
