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Talking to a narcissist-someone who has an inflated (and immovable) sense of self-worth-is like tiptoeing through a minefield. Every word you utter has the potential to detonate the conversation into a full-on argument. 和自恋者聊天--自我价值感膨胀的人--就像在困境中涉险过关。你所说的每一个词都可能将你们的对话变成剑拔弩张的局面。 It's not you. (Really.) People who are narcissistic "are not good at regulating emotions, and do not manage frustration well," explains Ramani Durvasula, PhD, a licensed clinical psychologist and author of Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist. "They're more like 3-year-olds than adults; they don't tolerate any strong emotions well." 不是你。真的。自恋狂"不擅长调节情绪，也无法很好地控制沮丧之情，"Ramani Durvasula博士解释道，她还是位持证临床心理学家，以及《何去何从：与自恋者的恋情》（Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist）一书的作者。"他们的表现不像是成年人，倒像是三岁的小宝宝；他们无法忍受任何强烈的情绪。" | 
