语言朋友(47)r mood? Do you let a bad driver, impolite waiter, rude boss, or an insensitive employee__1__ your day? One day I was in a taxi and we headed __2__ the airport.We were driving in the __3__ lane when suddenly a black car drove out of a parking space right in front of us.My taxi driver slammed on his __4__, slide sideways, and at the very last moment our car stopped and __5__ the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car looked around and started __6__at us. My taxi driver just __7__ and waved at the guy.And I mean he was really__8__.So I asked, “Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!” ght me what I now call “The Law of the Garbage Truck”.He explained that many people are like garbage trucks.They run around full of __9____10__ up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on __11__ .Don't take it personally.Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Believe me.You'll be__12__.Don't take their garbage and __13__it to other at home, or on the streets.Life's too short to wake up in the morning with __14__.The mark of your success is how quickly you can refocus on what's __15__ in your life.Roy Baumeister, a psychology researcher from Florida State University, found in his extensive research that you __16__ bad things more often than good things in your life.You store the bad memories more easily, and you__17__ them more frequently. |