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135 Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right--and others are wrong. Many people believe that it's their job to 1 others how their positions,statements, and points of view are 2 , and that in doing so, the person they are correcting is going to somehow 3 it, or at least learn something. Wrong! Think about it. Have you ever been 4 by someone arm said to him, "Thank you so much for showing me that l'n wrong and you're right. ' or, has anyone you know ever 5 you when you corrected them, or made yourself "right" at their 6 ? Of course not. The truth is, all of us 7 to be corrected. We all want our positions to be 8 and understood by others. Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest 9 of the human heart. And those who learn to 10 are the most loved and respected. Those who are in the 11 of correcting others are often resented (怨恨) and 12 A wonderful way for becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice 13 others. | 
