Tantrums are the worst, am I right? 发脾气是最糟糕的事了,对吗? I've been parenting for over four years now and I still don't really know how to react to them most of the time. Seriously, right now my go-to responses to my toddler losing her shit is either joining her in the theatrics, stomping around or raising my voice, or completely freezing up and giving in to whatever it is she wants just to make it stop. 至今为止,我已当了4年的家长,但大多数时间里我还是不知道该如何对他们做出反应。说真的,我的孩子刚学会走路,现在只要她失控,我的反应要么就是和她一起演戏,到处跺脚、要么就是提高嗓门或者就是完全不理她,她想要什么就妥协,只要她不再大叫。 |