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Complaints From Unhappy Husbands 不幸福的老公都会有哪些抱怨？ "I Wish She'd Appreciate Me A little More" "我希望她能更理解我" The expert says: Whether you work in an office, run a household, or some combination of the two, you're both likely frustrated with your heaping plates of responsibility. And although it's a natural reaction, piling on more the second your partner steps through the door is not the best way to get him to hear or help you. "Instead of leading with a list, understand that he may need a few minutes to unwind," says Kara Thompson, a licensed family and marriage therapist in Lenexa, KS. You'll both listen better when you've decompressed and can actually focus on the issues at hand. 专家认为：不管你是上班族还是家庭主妇，亦或是两者兼有，很有可能你会因自己肩负的许多责任而感到沮丧。虽然这是自然反应，但在另一半刚进门后就开始絮絮叨叨并不是让他们倾听或帮助你的最好方法。"与其说一长串自己的烦恼，倒不如为他们着想，也许他们也需要几分钟放松一下，"肯萨斯州莱内克萨的注册家庭婚姻治疗师卡拉·汤普森说道。在压力有所缓解并能真正专注手头问题的时候，你们才能更好的倾听。 | 
