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The saying goes that you can’t help who you fall in love with, and sometimes you just fall out of it too. 俗话说得好：你无法控制自己爱上谁，也无法控制自己不爱谁。 But a new study has found that we can in fact control our hearts with our heads more than we thought - psychologists from the University of Missouri-St. Louis and Erasmus University Rotterdam found that it’s possible to wilfully increase or decrease how much you love someone. 但一项新的研究发现：事实上，我们的头脑对心的控制远比我们想象的大得多——密苏里大学圣路易斯分校和鹿特丹伊拉斯谟大学的心理学家发现：我们可以有意识的增加或减少对某人的爱，这是可能的。 | 
