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很多人在跟前任分手后，对对方还是念念不忘，甚至想起来还会痛苦不已，今天小编为大家分享忘记前任的9个方法。 1. Get Closure 快刀斩乱麻 If you’re going to break up with him or her, don’t put it off. Make sure you’re both on the same page. This is a breakup. The two of you are moving on, which means potentially seeing other people. If you feel the need to do a relationship postmortem, do it now. You won’t be seeing her again for a while. 一旦你决定分手，那么不要拖。要让对方明白现在是个什么情况，这是分手。如果你们两个人都决定分手那么意味着你们都想认识其他人。如果你想让你的感情成为过去式，那么当机立断。这样你也不会再见到TA。 2. Take Him or Her Off That Pedestal 把TA从你心里的神座上拉下来 First things first: Stop acting like your ex was God’s gift. Make a list of his or her annoying traits. Let your buddies bad-mouth her. 首先的首先：不要再认为你的前任是上帝赐给你的礼物。列一个TA的八婆特质清单。让你的好朋友给你说说TA的坏话。 3. Don't Contact 别再联系 After you’ve gotten closer, don’t contact her. Go cold turkey. Seriously. Maybe you said some crapabout trying to stay friends, maybe you made some idiot vow to “always be there for each other,” but forget it. | 
