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很多人常常会通过与他人对比后，觉得自卑，觉得自己不如他人。 If you compare yourself to certain people, it's easy to feel you're unsuccessful. If you're an entrepreneur and you compare yourself to Richard Branson, you lose. 如果你拿自己跟别人比较，你很容易会认为自己并不成功。如果你是一名企业家，然后你跟Richard Branson相比，你输了。 If you're a musician and you compare yourself to Taylor Swift (especially if the point of comparison is earnings), you lose. 如果你是一位音乐家，你跟Taylor Swift相比(尤其是比收入)，你输了。 If your goal is to change the world and you compare yourself to Steve Jobs ... you lose. 如果你的目标是改变世界，然后跟Steve Jobs相比……你又输了。 That's the problem with comparisons. No matter how successful you feel, there will always be someone who is more successful. There will always someone better, or smarter, or wealthier, or seemingly more happy. 这就是问题，你喜欢比较。不管你认为自己有多么成功，总会有人比你更成功，总会有人比你更好，更聪明，更富有，更快乐。 So let's stop comparing and just focus on you. Here are a few signs that you're more successful than you might think — and, in all likelihood, happier too: | 
