想家,是每一个漂泊在外的人,都会有的时刻,想家的时候该怎么办呢? Along with feelings of insecurity, loss of control and nervousness, physical effects, including sleep issues, fatigue and loss of appetite, are caused by homesickness. We gathered a few psychologist-backed tips to help ease homesickness: 想家除了会导致不安感,还有失控、紧张,对身体也有影响(包括失眠、疲劳、没有胃口)。我们搜集了一些心理学家提供的帮助缓解想家的建议: 1. Practice self-compassion. 自我同情。 Self-compassion is loving yourself just as you love the ones you care about. The most important step in practicing self-compassion is substituting negative, critical thoughts about yourself with thoughts that are more supportive and kind. 自我同情就是像爱你在乎的人那样爱你自己。自我同情最重要的方法就是用更积极更宽容的想法对待自己,取代以前消极的、批评的想法。 2. Realize that feeling homesick is 100 percent normal. 你要知道想家很正常。 Almost everyone experiences homesickness when moving to a new place — some people might just be better at hiding it. Being homesick is not a sign of personal shortcoming. 几乎每个人到了一个新地方都会想家,只是有些人更善于隐藏这种情绪,想家不是缺点。 |