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Caring about what other people think of you is part of being a normal human being. 在意别人对你的看法是你作为正常人的一部分。 In fact, scientists in one study found that the reward center in people's brains was active when they were told that someone approved their taste in music. 事实上，科学家在一次研究中发现，当人们得知有人赞同他们的音乐品味时，大脑中的奖励中心就会变的活跃。 It's only a problem when you're consumed by worries about your reputation — when every decision about what to wear, who to hang out with, and even what career to pursue are based on the fear of looking stupid. 当你过分担心自己的声誉时，这才会是个问题——你害怕自己的决定会看起来很愚蠢，比如穿什么、跟谁出去逛、甚至追求什么职业等。 | 
