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你平时是怎么跟另一半相处的呢？你知道什么样的恋爱关系才是健康的吗？ 1. You don't have to see each other every day. 你们不必每天都见面。 If you can, then why not? But you don't have to nag each other about you or your partner coming over just because you haven't seen a glimpse of each other for the day (yet). For long-distance relationships, if you can insert that five-minute FaceTime before you head for work (and before he hits the sack), then great. 如果能见面，为什么不见呢?但你们无需因为一天没见就烦恼着是你过去找他还是让他过来找你。对于异地恋来说，如果你们能在上班之前(和睡觉之前)抽出5分钟视频聊天就很好了。 And this isn't about not making time for seeing each other, it's just that you've reached a point in your relationship when you've realized the difference about being there and being clingy. Minus the Skype, FaceTime and whatever video call apps you use, you are present. And he knows that. 我的意思不是说不要刻意为见面留出时间，只是你们的关系已经到了那种程度，你们已经明白在一起和腻在一起的区别。即使没有Skype、FaceTime以及你们使用的所有视频聊天工具，他也知道你的存在。 2. You don't have to update each other of the most minute of details... | 
