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It's pretty safe to say that we'd all like to come across as well-informed, knowledgeable, and smart. Society values experts and rewards them, so we benefit when we're seen as having a certain level of command in what we do and what we speak about. While it's certainly positive to better ourselves in this regard, it can be a dangerous path to go down if we're focused too much on perceived expertise and intelligence during our interactions with others. 我们都喜欢给人留下见多识广、知识渊博、聪明睿智的印象，这一点不假。我们的社会重视专家，而且专家也能得到回报。因此，当我们在自己所做、所谈的领域有两把刷子的时候，我们是能够得到好处的。在这个方向上不断精进当然是个好事，但是，如果在于别人沟通的过程中太过强调自己的专业程度与智力优越感，那就很危险了。 | 
