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As Daniel Jones, author of Love Illuminated, explains: we spend our youth asking "How do I find love?" and midlife asking "How do I get it back?" 《启蒙的爱》的作者丹尼尔·琼斯(Daniel Jones)说：“年轻的时候，我们总是在问‘我怎样才能找到真爱’?到了中年，我们又会问‘我怎样才能找回爱’?” Anyone in a relationship or who plans on being in one needs to know how to keep love alive over the long term. But how do you learn the secret to this? Everyone is happy to explain "how they met" but few give the details on "how they stayed together." 恋爱中或者准备恋爱的人需要了解怎样才能让爱长期保持鲜活。但你又怎么知道其中的奥妙呢?人人都乐于讲述“和爱人相遇的过程”，但却几乎没人会细致地描述“两人是怎样在一起”的。 So let's look at what science has to say. 那么我们来看看科学的解释。 "Happily ever after" ain't easy “快乐厮守到老”并非易事 Aside from being the epitome of lazy writing, "happily ever after" is not simple. 除非是随口说说，否则“快乐厮守到老”并不容易。 Ty Tashiro explains that couples in their first year of mrriages score 86 percent for marriage satisfaction. By the seventh year, it's under 50 percent. | 
