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Maybe you're looking for love, maybe you're unsure if you'll ever find it, maybe you're in a relationship and wondering where all the love went. Regardless, I'm here to tell you that this lack of love is not your fault. This means shifting our perspective on love in three essential ways: 可能你正在寻找爱;可能你不确定是否能找到真爱;可能你在谈恋爱但还在想爱都去哪儿了。无论你属于哪一种，在这里，我想告诉你缺乏爱不是你的错。这意味着要从以下三个方面改变我们对爱的看法： 1. Instead of searching for that one special loving relationship, bring as much love as you can into all your relationships. 1、不要寻找那种特殊的爱，与他人相处时你要尽可能多地投入爱。 You may have many soulmates in a lifetime and those relationships may not last forever. Your friendships may last longer than your marriage. And that is OK. Love expands to fill the space available. The trick is making the space available. 你可能一辈子会遇到很多灵魂伴侣，而那些恋情都没有坚持到最后，你的友谊可能比婚姻更持久。这没有什么问题。爱在你的生活中总会找到自己的位置，关键是你要给爱留有一席之地。 Everyone on this planet -- including yourself -- is deserving of love. And everyone on this planet is deserving of your love. Once we let go of this idea of the one, we open ourselves up to seeing and loving everyone. | 
