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You’re bound to say some tone-deaf things to your spouse every so often ― but there are some phrases you should absolutely never say. 你一定经常唠叨一些话，但你的配偶对此置若罔闻。不过有些话最好还是不要再讲了。 We asked couple therapists to share the most annoying things men report hearing from their spouses. Of course, it goes both ways. 我们向一些情感诊疗专家咨询了这些丈夫最不想听到的话。反之亦然。 丈夫最不想听妻子唠叨的九句话 1. “Nevermind, I’ll just do it myself.” 1.“没事，我自己来。” Marriage pro tip: When you ask your spouse to call the plumber to fix the sink, give him a chance to do it. Rolling your eyes and saying, “nevermind, I’ll do it myself” may result in you getting your sink fixed sooner, but it’s also likely to rub your spouse the wrong way. 婚姻小贴士：在你需要丈夫帮忙打电话叫水管工来修洗碗槽时，不妨直接让他来修理，别对他翻个白眼说“算了，我自己来。”也许这样做洗碗槽可以很快修好，但夫妻关系很可能会因此产生裂痕。 “Chances are, he wants to help you and make you happy,” said Anne Crowley, an Austin, Texas-based psychologist. “It’s a frustrating phrase for a husband to hear because it suggests you don’t think he’s capable of completing the task and don’t need him.” | 
