Failure is an inevitable part of life, but smart people know how to make it work for them. 失败是生活中不可避免的一部分,但聪明的人知道如何利用它们。 One of the biggest roadblocks to success is the fear of failure. Fear of failure is worse than failure itself because it condemns you to a life of unrealized potential. 通向成功的障碍之一是害怕失败。害怕失败比失败本身更可怕,因为它谴责你过着未知可能性的生活。 A successful response to failure is all in your approach. In a study recently published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, researchers found that success in the face of failure comes from focusing on results (what you hope to achieve), rather than trying not to fail. While it's tempting to try and avoid failure, people who do this fail far more often than those who optimistically focus on their goals. 对失败最成功的回应在于你的方法。在《实验社会心理学杂志》最新发表的一篇研究中,研究人员发现,勇于面对挫折的成功感来源于对结果的关注(你希望实现的事),而不是尽量避免失败。尽管每个人对于失败都带有一种侥幸的心理,但这么做的人往往比那些乐观专注于自己目标的人更容易失败。 如何利用失败成就自己? "Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm." --Winston Churchill“ |