1. The damsel in distress. 1、待解救的少女 You love feeling like a superhero. Rescuing that troubled woman is somehow so appealing. You must ask yourself -- Why is she always having problems? Why is there always something bad happening to her? Just remember, if you rescue a damsel in distress, you end up with nothing more than a distressed damsel. Ask yourself what will happen if you needed to count on her. You should not have to rescue a person time and again. The only thing you should rescue is a pet! 你爱上了做超级英雄的感觉。没任何由来的,“解救困难缠身的少女”这事格外吸引人。你得问问自己:为何她总有各种各样的问题?糟糕的事怎么老是发生在她身上?你只需记住,如果你解救了这样一位少女,你最终只会得到一位忧愁的弱女子。扪心自问,假若你需要依靠她,事情会变成什么样。你不该没完没了地向这种人伸出援手。唯一需要你拯救的只是宠物啊! 2. The psycho. 2、神经错乱的女性 These women are often beautiful. You are easily blinded by her beauty, though. She has anger outbursts, unpredictable moods, one minute wants a hug and the next is biting your head off. She may have an actual personality disorder and zero insight about her behavior. She may even say she has “bad PMS,” but do not buy that excuse! |