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1.Communicate 1.沟通 One of the worst pitfalls in a collaboration is a misunderstanding between participants, so always and immediately, whenever confused, ask for a clarification of something that seems off or hurtful. I prefer face to face communication over emails or texts, as so much context and subtlety gets lost, I believe, in electronic communication. But others might feel more comfortable communicating through email. Know your partner and their preferences. Do your best to honor them. 在合作中有一个很大的陷阱是参与者之间存在误会，所以无论何时感到疑惑，要立刻把那些看起来有伤害的事情问清楚。相较于邮件或信息，我更习惯面对面的交流。因为我觉得在电子通信中我们的交流失去了很多情境以及细节信息。但另一些人可能更习惯听过邮件联络，要清楚伙伴的喜好，最大程度的尊重他们。 2.Empathize 2.换位思考 Every time you open your mouth, try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes. How would it feel to hear the words you’re saying? Is your collaborator going through personal stuff that might be making them seem less amenable today? Don’t be afraid to toggle back and forth between work mode and human mode. It’s better for the process and better for the people. 每次你开口时，都尽量站在伙伴的立场考虑。当听到你说的话时会作何反应?你的合作伙伴是否因为一些个人的事情才导致了当天状态不佳?不要害怕在工作模式和生活模式之间来回切换，其实这对于工作和个人来说都更好。 | 
