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“Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.”—Dale Carnegie If we really want to be happy, why do we act like such babies? 任何笨蛋都可以批评，谴责和抱怨，但是理解和宽容需要个人品质和自我控制。——卡内基。如果我们想要变得高兴，为什么要像小孩子那样呢? We can claim to be proactive in our life by settings goals and going after what we want. 我们可以积极主动的在我们生活中设定目标，然后向着目标进发。 But if we’re always whining and complaining, are we really living effectively? 但是如果我们整天牢骚满腹，怨天尤人的话，我们还会活的有效率吗? If you don’t believe me, count how many times you complain about something or other in one day. 如果你不相信我，仔细想想你一天要抱怨几次。 Whether it be being stuck in traffic, being bothered by the weather, not enough mustard on your sandwich, or whatever it is, there are endless instances where you can find a reason to complain. 不管是因为糟糕的交通状况，被天气所困扰，还是三明治上芥末放得不够，总之生活中有无数的烦心事可以让我们抱怨。 But it’s not just outside circumstances that we complain about.We complain about ourselves too.We complain that we don’t have enough time, we don’t have enough money (this one is huge because it’s often“true”), that we’re not smart enough, cool enough, or just enough. | 
