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We all want others to like us. Deep down in our hearts we all want to feel supported, respected, and, most importantly, loved. 我们都希望别人喜欢自己。内心深处，我们都渴望被支持、被尊重，更重要的是，被爱。 Yet, unfortunately, for many of us this is much easier said then done. We can feel like we always fall short in finding this love that we so desire to experience. 然而不幸的是，对很多人来说，这说起来容易做起来难。我们觉得总是找不到自己渴望拥有的爱。 Here's the thing: Many of us waste our energy on things that aren't really positively serving us. We worry about whether someone will like us or not. We obsess about a past relationship that didn't work. We go on a first date with this underlying fear of "Will I be rejected?" 事实是这样：很多人把精力浪费在对我们没有帮助的事情上。我们担心某人是否喜欢自己;我们执着于一段不欢而散的感情;初次约会时，我们心里一直想着：“我会被拒绝吗?” The trouble is that when we do these things, we allow all these things to suck away our energy, which prevents us from truly standing in our own unique power. 问题是，当我们这么做的时候，我们让这些琐事吸取了自己的精力，阻碍我们真正屹立于自己独特的力量中。 | 
