there was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things in order, she contacted her Rabbi (法师)and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures (经文)she would like read, and what outfit (用具)she wanted to be buried in. Everything was in order and the Rabbi was preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered something very important to her. theres one more thing, she said excitedly. What that? came the Rabbis reply. This is very important, the young woman continued. I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand. the Rabbi stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say. That surprises you, doesnt it? the young woman asked. Well, to be honest, Im puzzled by the request, said the Rabbi. the young woman explained. My grandmother once told me this story, and from there on out, I have |