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Linda Lajterman suffered one of the worst experiences of her life while on a cruise with her husband and two other couples. Halfway through the trip, one of her friends stopped talking to her for good. 琳达拉哲特曼(Linda Lajterman)在与丈夫和另外两对夫妇乘船游览的时候遭遇了她这辈子最不愉快的经历。半路上，她的一个朋友不理她了，而且永远不理她了。 Ms. Lajterman says she has no idea what prompted the woman, who was one of her best friends, to cut her off. They helped take care of each others kids, celebrated family events together and shared confidences. After the cruise, which took place a few years ago, she called her friend and asked for an explanation, but received none. She says she was devastated. 拉哲特曼说，她不知道是什么事让最好的朋友和她绝交了。她们曾帮对方照看小孩，一起举办家庭庆祝活动，分享秘密。在旅行过后，她打电话给那个朋友，请她作出解释，不过对方什么也没说。这已经是几年前的事了。拉哲特曼说，她因此感到很伤心。 I would have welcomed the opportunity to apologize or discuss it if I did anything wrong, says Ms. Lajterman, a 52-year-old nurse from Ramsey, N.J. Instead, it took me three self-help books and two years to make peace with the fact that someone I thought was a good friend ended our friendship. 现年52岁的拉哲特曼是新泽西州拉姆齐的一名护士。她说，如果是我做错了什么事，我希望有机会道歉，或者和她好好谈谈。相反，我却是在读了三本自助书，花了两年的时间后才让自己接受了这个事实我以为是好朋友的人和我绝交了。 | 
