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Lets face it. We all fail. 人人都有失败，不如坦然面对。 As we go through life we have relationships that dont work out, jobs that just arent right, exams that we flunk, initiatives that dont succeed. The more new things we try the more failures we are likely to have. In fact, the only way to avoid failure is to do nothing new. 这一生，我们总会遇到纠缠不清的人际关系、不甚满意的工作、未通过的考试，或者不曾实现的计划。尝试越多，挫折也越多。除非什么都不干，否则难免遭受打击。 The important thing is how we deal with failure. It can be part of a downward slide in which lack of confidence reinforces feelings of inadequacy and incompetence. But experiencing failure can be a learning experience and an opportunity for a fresh start. A good way to begin this process is by asking yoruself some tough questions. 关键是我们如何面对失败。人走下坡路，往往会自卑，感到无能为力。但失败也是吸取教训、重新开始的机会。要重新开始，最好认真思考下面几个问题。 1. What can I learn from this? 我从失败中学到了什么? Take responsibility for what went wrong. OK, so it was not all your fault but some of it was. Successful people dont make excuses or blame others. They take ownership of the issues. Be critical but constructive. Try to look at the experience objectively. Make a list of the key things that happened. Analyze the list step by step and look for the learning points. 为所犯的错承担责任。的确，失败并非完全你的错，但你也确实在责难逃吧。成功的人从来不为失败找借口或抱怨他人，而是坦然承担责任。所以，试着客观看待挫折，列出清单，一步一步认真总结才好。 | 
