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A consistent approach is pivotal to successfully teaching a son or daughter right from wrong when punishing them. It prevents small misdeeds and poor conduct from tunung into greater misdeeds. You have to remain unwavering and mean it when you ask them, Switch off your computer now or no dessert after dinner because you didnt touch your dinnet . 当你因自己的儿子或女儿做了错事而惩罚他们时，前后一致的教育途径是至关重要的，它能预防小错变大。但是你一定要保持坚定，即当你对他们说： 现在，关了你的电脑竹或者 因为你没碰晚餐，饭后不许吃甜点 时，要让孩子觉得你不是闹着玩的 A consistent approach shows your son or daughter there are express effects for misdeeds and improper or unsatisfactory deeds or manners. 前后一致的教育之道会让你的儿子或女儿知道，在他们做了错事，做了不适当的举止或不令人满意的行为之后，你会立刻有相应的反应。 Displaying a lack of consistency when purushing makes you directly accountable for your childrens misdeeds and wiU not teach them how to be liable for their exploits 如果你教育孩子时缺乏前后一致的态度，你要直接为你孩子的错误行为负责，同时，你也无法教会他们如何为自己的行为负责。 Its also necessary that each partner is consistent with the discipline.If one parent is firm and the other is too forgiving, the son or daugh ter will key into that and attempt to manipulate the position to his or her dvantage. Parents must be in agreement on disciplinary code beforehand and make a commitment to each other to be consistent in carrying out and following through with the consequences. This can be especially dimcult if the childs parents are divorced or separated. Though you are not living together, its crucial that both parents have a united ground. Openly and honestly agree these parameters with your former spouse and your son or daughter in advance, so that if any disciplinary action is called for, the effect of such misdeeds are fully realizedin adv:ince. | 
