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理解第十八篇 In a family where the roles of men and women are not sharply separated and where many household tasks are shared to a greater or lesser extent, notions of male superiority are hard to maintain. The pattern of sharing in tasks and in decisions makes for equality, and this in turn leads to further sharing. In such a home, the growing boy and girl learn to accept that equality more easily than did their parents and to prepare more fully for participation in a world characterized by cooperation rather than by the battle of the sexes. If the process goes too far and man s role is regarded as less important - and that has happened in some cases-we are as badly of as before, only in reverse. It is time to reassess the role of the man in the American family. We are getting a little tired ofmonism, - but we don t want to exchange it for aneo-popism.What we need, rather, is the recognition that bringing up children involves a partnership of equals. There are signs that psychatrists, psychologists, social workers, and specialists on the family are becoming more aware of the part men play and that they have decided that women should not receive all the credit-not all the blame. We have almost given up saying that a woman s place is the home. We are beginning, however, o analyze men s place in the home and to insist that he does have a place in it. Nor is that place irrelevant to the healthy development of the child. | 
