过生日时想到的问题 Growing up takes time. I remember at 15 talking to my aunt on the 15th anniversary of her 21st birthday about the stigma of aging. Later that evening, I asked my grandfather about the hula girl tattoo on his arm。 成长需要时间。我仍然记得15岁时,在阿姨21岁生日派对上讨论变老的可怕。那天晚上,我还问爷爷他手臂上纹着的跳草裙舞女孩是谁。 Thats your grandma, he proudly answered before stretching out the skin on his forearm and quipping, and this is what she used to look like。 那是你奶奶。他骄傲地答道,然后伸出小臂俏皮地说,这是她年轻时的模样。 Dont struggle through another yearshake off those birthday blues with these useful questions to unlock your mind。 不要勉强应付着长一岁反思下面这些生活问题,抛开生日忧郁,点亮自我心灵吧。 1. Where was I this time last year? 去年此时我是什么阶段? Forecasting is both the most and least important part of planning. To get an accurate picture of where you are, you need to check where you were last year at the same time. Are you still on the right path? If not, what threw you off course, and what can you do to get back up and moving in the right direction? |