The American Family In the American family the husband and wife usually share important decision making. When the children are old enough, they take part_________. Foreigners are often surprised by the permissiveness of American parents. The old rule that children should be seen and not heard is rarely_________, and children are often allowed to do what they wish without strict parental_________. The father seldom expects his children to obey him_________ question, and children are encouraged to be independent_________ an early age. Some people believe that American parents carry this freedom_________ far. Others think that a strong father image would not_________ the American values of equality and independence. Because Americans emphasize the importance of independence, young people are expected to break_________ their parental families by the time they have_________ their late teens or early twenties. , not to do so is often regarded as a failure, a kind of weak dependence. This pattern of independence often results in serious_________ for the aging parents of a small family. The average American is expected to live the age of 70. The job-retirement age is _________ 65. The children have left home, married, and_________ their own households. At least 20 percent of all people over 65 do not have enough retirement incomes. _________ the major problem of many elderly couples is not economic. They feel useless and lonely with neither an occupation nor a close family group. |