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本课您将学到：to和toward（s）辨析，到底哪个大？ 你可曾认识一对看上去很不般配、可其婚姻却十分幸福的夫妇?其中的原因让你百思不得其解。到底是什么神秘力量使我们投入到某个人的怀抱？今天，我们就来聊聊相爱的规律。 When were little, our mother is the center of our attention, and we are the center of hers. So our mothers characteristics（特性） leave an indelible（难以磨灭的） impression, we are forever attracted to people with her facial features（面部特征）, body type, and personality, even sense of humor. If our mother was warm and giving, as adults we tend to be attracted to people who are warm and giving. If our mother was strong and even-tempered（沉稳的）, we are going to be attracted to a fair-minded（公平的） strength in our mates. While the mother determines（决定） in large part what qualities（品质） attract us in a mate, its the fatherthe first male in our liveswho influences（影响） how we relate to the opposite sex.（异性） Fathers have an enormous（巨大的） effect on their childrens personalities（品格） and chances of marital happiness.（婚姻幸福） Just as mothers influence their sons general feelings toward women, fathers influence their daughters general feelings about men. If a father lavishes（慷慨地给予） praise on his daughter and demonstrates（证明） that she is a worthwhile（有价值的） person, shell feel very good about herself in relation to men. But if the father is cold, critical or absent, the daughter will tend to feel shes not very lovable（讨人喜爱的） or attractive. | 
