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人与人之间的交往真的是一种艺术，适当得体的话语能为你的个人魅力加分不少。拒绝他人的请求往往是一件不讨人喜欢的事情，学会委婉的拒绝更是尤为重要。下面这些你做到了吗? How many ways are there to say No without offending anyones feeling? Well， there is No， I cant， No， I dont have time and No， I dont want to。 But the problem is that many of us try to avoid situations that require us to say No to people. In almost every culture this little word is associated with rejection， failure， egoism and a lack of tact and empathy towards others. 有多少种方法在拒绝时而不得罪人呢? 不行，我没法做。 不行，我没空。 不行，我不想做。 但是问题在于，我们很多人都想避免对别人说不。 几乎在每种文化中，不这个字都和拒绝、失败、利己主义、应变能力不足、缺少同情心联系起来。 I can not recall how many times I have eaten burnt， undercooked， blandand poorly tasting dishes simply because I did not want to hurt the feelings of the person who had cooked them. Or the times when I bought something， I did not need， because I felt guilty leaving a shop empty-handed after spending 20 minutes of the shop assistants time. 我记不起来有多少次，我因为不想伤害做饭的人的感情而吃掉糊了的、夹生的、平淡无味的或味道很差的食物。 我也记不起来有多少次我买了不需要的东西，只是因为我觉得花了导购员20分钟的时间两手空空离开会有一种负罪感。 | 
