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Feeling stressed? Of course you are. You have too much on your plate, deadlines are looming, people are counting on you, and to top it all off, you still have holiday shopping to do. You are under a lot of pressure — so much that at times, you suspect the quality of your work suffers for it. 觉得有压力?这是再正常不过的了。你有太多事要操心，最后期限迫在眉睫，别人还都指望着你，最糟糕的是，你假期还要血拼购物呢。你承受着一堆压力——压力太大，以至于有时候，你会怀疑工作质量因此受到了影响。 This is life in the modern workplace. The difference between those who are successful and those who aren't is not whether or not you suffer from stress, but how you deal with it when you do.Here are seven scientifically-proven strategies for defeating stress whenever it strikes. 这就是现在的职场生活。成功人士与常人的区别不是在于有没有遇到压力，而是在于如何处理它们。下面有7个经过科学验证的方法，可以帮你在压力来袭时战胜压力。 1. Have self-compassion. 1.自惜自怜 Self-compassion is, in essence, cutting yourself some slack. It's being willing to look at your mistakes or failures with kindness and understanding — without harsh criticism or defensiveness. Studies show that people who are self-compassionate are happier, more optimistic, and less anxious and depressed. That's probably not surprising. But here's the kicker: they are more successful, too. Most of us believe that we need to be hard on ourselves to perform at our best, but it turns out that's 100 percent wrong.So remember that to err is human, and give yourself a break. | 
