It's always sad to see someone lose. I'm sure many of you have experienced at least one disappointment in your life and may face more yet. It's OK to fail, but the key is to have a good attitude about it and to learn something from it. Here are some tips to help with the sting of failure: 看到他人的不得志,我们也不会好受。我相信你们大多数人一辈子都至少经历过一次失落,而且还要面对更多次。失败了没有什么,关键是如何以好的心态面对它,并从中有所收获。应对失败的来袭,这里有一些不错的建议,会有所帮助: 1.Accept it. 坦然接受。 Some people may feel denial after a disappointment. It's not very healthy to be in denial, because if you don't accept the situation for what it is, you can't take the next steps to move on. Take a deep breath, and come to terms with what happened. 随着失望情绪的到来,有些人会不承认失败。否认可不是良好的应对之策,如果你无法接受现实,你就无法走出下一步,继续前行。做个深呼吸,坦然接受发生的事实吧。 2.Don't be a sore loser. 不要成为输不起的人。 If someone else achieved what you wanted, don't start taking your frustrations out on them. Face your failure with grace, and people will respect you even more for it. 如果其他人实现了你的愿望,不要开始将自己的怨气撒在他人身上。以平常心面对你的不如意,这样别人会更加尊重你。 |