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研究表明，一个人的人际关系好坏和他平时的说话习惯是高度相关的。老话说得好，祸从口出，糟糕的说话方式很容易破坏你平日里精心培养起来的人际关系。看看以下的6种说话的禁忌有没有在你身上发生吧。 1. The Fake Agreement: Pretending to agree while expressing the opposite point of view. 1.虚假认同：假装认同别人的同时却表现出相反的观点。 Typical usage: “I'm with you… but I just don’t think we should take on that project.” 经典语句：“我很赞同你的观点……不过我不认为我们应该采用那个项目。” In reality you aren't really with me because then you would agree with what I’m saying. (Plus beginning a sentence with something like, “I hear you…” is like a condescending pat on the head.) 事实是你根本不同意我，因为不管我说什么你都会说你同意。（补充一句，如果一句话用“我听说你……”这样的语句来开头的话，听上去就好像上级拍着下级的脑袋在讲话一样。） Don’t try to couch a different opinion inside a warm and fuzzy Fake Agreement. If you disagree, just say so professionally. 不要试着把不同的意见硬装在一句友善的、模棱两可的赞同中。你要是不同意，就直接正式地说出来。 2. The Unsupported Closure: Ending a discussion or making a decision without backup or solid justification. | 
