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When a work friendship begins to sour, sometimes the best way to keep the peace in the office is to end that relationship. But there's no easy way to divorce a friend who you see in a professional setting every day. 如果和同事间的友情开始变味了，有时候保持办公室和平最好的方式就是结束这段关系。但是，要想在抬头不见低头见的工作环境中与同事和平“分手”并非易事。 We dug into that issue to find out the ideal way to distance yourself from a work friendship that just isn't working. 我们想要看看有没有一种理想的方式，可以正确处理一段已经“寿终正寝”的工作伙伴关系。 Chris Aung-Thwin, an editor at AskMen.com, said the best approach is the least dramatic one. 知名网站AskMen的编辑Chris Aung-Thwin表示，解决同事间关系的最好办法就是低调处理。 "I would let a relationship fizzle more than having a direct conversation with somebody about why it's toxic or how it's not working," he said. 他说，“我会选择冷处理和同事间的关系，而不是直接去找某个人谈，告诉他/她为什么我们的关系是有害的或者有问题的。” Ending the friendship with a confrontation could result in hard feelings that can haunt the office worse than the negative relationship, Aung-Thwin added. 如果是以对抗的方式结束一段办公室友谊的话，会让人感到不快，导致办公室的气氛更加恶劣。 | 
