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“成功”是个迷人的字眼，它代表了一个人想获得的一切。人人都在急急忙忙地向成功狂奔，在路上奋力挣扎。可是成功不是那么容易得来的。 “Slow down you’re doing fine. You can’t be everything you want to be before your time.” ~Billy Joel. There is too much hype about thriving to success and way too many hits about that “race” on the I-net (only 360 million!). Even the most simple, profound and usable advice on how to win the success race is getting caught up in the chase to unload the overload. Chaos is mounting by the nanosecond and we are all running out of time, just trying to survive and getting more frustrated in the process. Maybe it is time to pause and think about how we can walk our way to success and still have enough breath left over to enjoy a little bit of it? I like the saying, “death is nature’s way of telling us to slow down.” It certainly makes its point. If the self-help/self-growth industry concentrates on slowing down to see how we can teach ourselves and others how to walk to success, we will be taking this success thing to a whole new level. And this effort is always a matter of good timing. All zestfully successful thrivers have to accept the dilemma they are part of. First, the more knowledge and wisdom you have, the more you identify with it to the point of staking your whole worth and selfhood on this valuable knowledge. You are more right and others are less right. But that builds a prideful ego so full of itself that no one is remotely interested in the most sensible of solutions. The barrel of good apples stinks. | 
